There are few couples who can dream of having a truly graceful relationship in public and private. These are couples that never argue in front of other people, and they rarely fight in private. They have learned to compensate for each other's strengths and weaknesses. Neither of them will ever publically embarrass their significant other if at all possible. These partners seem to glide through life without ever taking a wrong step. The pair has found their way to a great relationship, and have learned to make it work.
Learning to do anything has always been made up of several parts. After studying the original lesson, practice and repetition are the most important steps. Partners that have a graceful relationship have taken this lesson to heart. They learned early how to communicate and agree to disagree about a few basic issues. After that, they simply practiced these principles and repetition has made them almost perfect.